Should I make my child try new foods?
It is understandable to want your child to taste something before deciding they do not like it. But forcing a bite can turn curiosity into a power struggle.
Short answer
Invite your child to explore food; do not force them to taste it.
What you can do
Keep offering new foods in small amounts alongside familiar ones. Let your child participate in shopping, washing, cooking, serving, smelling, touching, or describing the food.
Trying is not the only useful step. Familiarity comes first.
You can say:
“You don't have to eat it. You can explore it if you want.”
“What does it smell like?”
“Would you like some on your plate?”
What to avoid
Avoid “just one bite” becoming a daily battle. Do not use sweets, dessert, screens, or other rewards as payment for tasting.
Also avoid punishment or shame for refusing food.
But shouldn't children learn to eat different things?
Yes, variety matters. The question is how we help them get there.
Adults can keep offering a varied diet and maintaining the family meal structure without taking control of whether the child swallows a particular food.
When to seek help
If food refusal is severe, the range of foods is becoming increasingly narrow, or there are concerns about growth, nutritional adequacy, pain, swallowing, choking, gagging, vomiting, allergy, or intense anxiety around food, consult an appropriate health professional.
Tell Kora what happens when you put a new food on the table. The exact interaction can show where invitation has turned into pressure.
